If you are constantly choosing the “wrong person,” perhaps it is time to figure out why your brain is convincing you that this person is “right.” Just as it’s true with substance abuse, until a person recognizes that they have got a problem, there is nothing that they can do to help themselves. Learning from past mistakes is ironically what your brain has already accomplished if you find yourself consistently repeating the same bad choices and the pattern seems too easy or comfortable to change.
Night after sleepless night, you lie awake replaying the fights in your head. You can’t understand why your partner won’t change or how they can simply ignore how you feel. You wonder if they ever truly loved you. You’ve tried everything to save your relationship, but nothing has worked. You know it’s time to end it, yet the thought of being alone petrifies you.
Sometimes, loving someone just isn’t enough if you aren’t receiving the same love in return. It’s like putting work into an old, broken-down car. No matter how much sweat and tears you put into it, it will never be the same again. The time you waste on the wrong person prevents the right person from coming your way.
Discussed below are few ways as to how a woman’s body reacts if they are with the wrong man.
1. You’re Smiling Less When You’re Alone
A woman loves to have alone time. It gives them time and space to ponder over the mistakes that they have done and also the things that they are doing. You try to think about the things that make you happy in life. You picture your friends, family and there comes out the smile on your face. But the smile goes away when you picture your partner. Somehow he doesn’t fit in your world, as he fails to be the person you wished for.
2. No Self-esteem
The term self-esteem is used to describe a person’s overall sense of self-worth or personal value. In other words, how much you appreciate and like yourself. If you are with the wrong person then your self-esteem will be pretty low. Your self-confidence will be completely destroyed and you won’t be able to make yourself feel good about anything. These are the basic signs given by the body when you have not met the right person yet.
3. Emotionally exhausted
Sometimes you feel like you cannot take it anymore and you wish that you could leave everything behind and run away. But you cannot, as you are so physically and mentally drained, that you do not have the energy anymore. This is the way how your body would have reacted, had you been with the right guy. The right guy would have kept you rejuvenated and completely energized. These are the warning signs given by the body so that you can step out of the dark and find the right guy.
4. A mind in denial
Our mind is very diplomatic but our body is very straightforward. Many times, women find themselves asking questions about the lives they are leading or about the relationship they are in. Before doing anything, they find themselves thinking twice and sometimes they need to convince themselves that they are right. This is the time when they should realize that their body is trying to talk to them. One simply doesn’t need so much convincing when they are with the right person.
5. You neglect yourself
Having a relationship with your own self is very much important in a relationship. You cannot forget who you are and change yourself completely to fulfill the needs of the relationship. If you are with the wrong person, you find that you are putting his needs before your own. If you get such signals from your body, you should quit the relationship, or maybe you cannot, as you have convinced yourself that losing your identity is what will make you a better person.
6. You’re Witnessing A Relationship Instead Of Being In One
Sometimes in a relationship, you just let things happen and take its own course. You feel like you are taken by a person and there is no way you can get out. Whenever it is your anniversary or your partner’s birthday, you buy gift not because you want to, but just like a norm that people have to follow. These may be because of physical abuse, mental stress, but either way, you need you get out of it and give yourself the chance to find the right guy for you.